Generally speaking, impulsive suicide is a momentary impulse, and after calming down, one will regret it. Helping him only eliminates the negative effects of the environment on suicidal behavior, encouraging him to let go of his burdens and return to a normal social life. As long as he feels warm and confident, the crisis can be resolved.
Those who are rescued from suicidal tendencies, as their suicidal thoughts are not formed overnight, may engage in suicidal behavior again within two to three months. If the frequency of such behavior is too high, it can easily become a habit. Therefore, this type of suicide requires long-term and patient companionship and recovery. Personal companionship is the best way to support and provide him with recovery methods related to trauma, encouraging him/her to communicate more with others in supportive language to obtain emotional relief.
Heart disease still needs to be treated with medication. After being rescued, the most important thing for those who have attempted suicide is to dispel their suicidal thoughts in the short term and prevent further shortsightedness. Due to not being able to save face, the jar is broken and thrown. It is also one of the reasons for repeated suicide (even for impulsive suicides). So we must establish their confidence. Don’t look at it differently or have any negative implications. Cannot be mocked. There should be no words or actions that may cause misunderstandings. Being too protective is also not good. Of course, try not to express any scolding in your words. The atmosphere, artistic conception, and effect should be warm.
When his mood was still unsettled, family and friendship were the best reasons to hold him back. After the emotional impulses have calmed down, we still need to provide appropriate assistance to those who have been rescued from suicide and make them want to be more open-minded. For example:
1. Help them understand the inappropriate aspects of stress management to enhance their problem-solving abilities.
2. Convincing him and telling him what to do instead of blindly denying his original approach. For those who have been rescued from suicide, their thoughts may be more extreme and stubborn, and the importance of standing is even greater than breaking through. Teaching the forms and methods of problem-solving is relatively easy, and it is also easier to gain quick acceptance from the perspective of pros and cons. However, if one wants to address the root cause, it is necessary to help them establish the correct goals and indicate the direction of development. This is difficult, not only because changes in thinking are subtle, but also because we can easily lose effectiveness by mishandling them. The best way to relieve stress and build confidence is to decompose goals appropriately, reduce expectations, and improve the level of achievement of things.
3. Assist the parties involved in expanding their social circle, encourage them to enter the crowd, and participate more in clubs and collective activities. Or arrange some work that allows for more interaction with people, such as selling groceries.
4. Let them have a firm belief that being rescued by suicide can also heal the harm to family and friends, make up for mistakes. If they really commit suicide, then it is truly unforgivable.
In many cases, long-term care is not practical for family and friends. For example, people must work hard to survive or maintain their families. At this point, it is necessary to teach the suicide victim the ability to solve psychological problems and return to society on their own. It is better to teach fish than to teach it to fish.
